Ever noticed how we appear to be increasingly alienated from one another these days? Locked away in our own little world: jacked into iPods, mobiles and laptops. Distracted. Remote. Hived off.
Nobody seems to pay any attention to anybody else anymore. We have become compartmentalised. Each of us inhabiting our own private universe. Seemingly unaware that we share our world with other sentient beings.
When we do occasionally notice ‘other people’, it’s often with a sense of annoyance and irritability that we have been jarred out of our private realm: when someone cuts in front of us in the supermarket queue, or accidentally bumps into us on a crowded city street.
Its as if ‘other people’ aren’t real. They have become abstractions. Components parts in a metaphorical A.I. simulation. Welcome to The Matrix.
Other people are increasingly seen as an inconvenience. An unwelcome distraction. Intruders into our proprietary, private worlds. This appears particularly prevalent in our towns and cities, although I’ve started noticing it more in rural locations. The sickness seems to be spreading… even the countryside is no longer safe.
Sometime during the past 20 years, there appears to have been an incremental erosion of trust to the point where ‘other people’ are now increasingly regarded with suspicion and unease. Perhaps to some extent it was ever thus, but I’ve certainly noticed a significant change in attitude during my own lifetime.
Take the tube. Walk to work in any city. Take the train. You will notice this social partitioning and siege mentality in action on a daily basis. Has society broken down at some basic atomic level? If so, how did this happen? What can we do to reconnect with one another? Why should we do it at all?
To my mind, society isn’t irrevocably disintegrating, but it’s exhibiting some clear signs of fracturing. Fundamental fault lines that threaten the stability of the entire social fabric, unless we take steps to repair them. The recent civil unrest and rioting in London (and elsewhere), are obvious signs that something important is broken.
So, how do we heal the rift? I don’t pretend to have the answers, but perhaps we should start here…